Missing our blessing

Many people know that I have a lot of female friends, and I often hear some of them mention how they might have missed out on someone great. Now for the longest time I would always think that it was the men that would somehow mess up a great thing, and miss out on our destiny, but when you have a chance to sit and listen to females it almost shocks you. I feel that the reason why some of us (men and women) miss our blessing is because we feel that we're not ready to be with that one person. sometimes we feel that we're not on their level yet, or we feel that we might be missing out on "Mr right now" if we decide to date "Mr right", which makes no kind of sense, but it's reality.

I believe that If we dont accept and embrace the person, who is our blessing, GOD will allow someone else to see the blessing. I think we get comfortable, thinking that when we're ready, the person will still be there waiting on us, and sometimes that is the case. I truly believe that in some cases GOD only has one person for us, but in other cases GOD will allow someone else to notice the blessing If you dont appreciate it. Some of us want to wait until we're on a certain level career wise, and financially before we settle down, but think on this........

We end up making 3 million a year, we get the 8 bedroom, 4 car garage house, we have the two dogs, but who will you have to share it with? It is not good for man (or woman) to be alone. If you have that blessing in your grasp, or If you see your blessing, reach up and get it.